Positive Language

Positive language shows that adoption is a planned, valid choice by birthparents and adoptive parents to build a family.

Current Positive Language
Outdated/Negative Language Birth
Parent
Real Parent, Natural Parent
Birth Child
Own Child
Born to Unmarried Parents
Illegitimate
Termination of Parental Rights
Given Up, Taken Away
Make an Adoption Plan
Give Away, Give Up, Put Up
To Parent
To Keep
Parent
Adoptive Parent
To Locate, To Search
Track Down
Child in Need of Adoption
Unwanted Child
Adoption Agreement
Surrender
Was Adopted
Is Adopted (It is a one-time event)